Wednesday, 19 November 2008

Try to make things happen

I sent an email to my wife with a plan in it. I hear you know, "What's he doing emailing his wife? Why not just talk to her?" - well, it was 1:30 am and I couldn't sleep so I got a few things off my mind and the email helped. Here's the plan:

The situation I want to be in as quickly as possible is this:

I want to have as many internet related revenue streams as possible
  • selling products i.e. buyxsocks.com
  • making web sites
  • selling information products that I have the skills to create. Don't laugh, I do have skills. I can create kicking and stretching information products, i.e. programmes for people to follow.
  • selling a Kids related martial arts teaching aid, this one could be big - we just need to put some work on it together. I want you to get excited about helping with this.

I want to leave working at Dakins
before I end up destroying everything around me through frustration. See, I have no room to make change but I do have a plan. I tried to leave 2 years ago but Dad convinced me in to staying and all that has happened is that I have grown to hate it more. I am being suffocated, stunted, strangled and prevented from growing or even earning any more money by doing what I am doing there. I do have a plan though and the plan is: I have already suggested that Dakins employ someone with experience to do my job at work. They'll do all the book keeping and keep up to date with statutory requirements and be much better at it that I am - this is approved it just needs to happen. I will then move over to more IT person and sort out the computers and stuff. But my plan here is to work as JANIK IT and invoice Dakins and then setup remote access to the PC's at work to fix any little "How To's" etc and I can do this from sitting at home. This I think will give more money, simply because I can charge pretty much high fees for this work. Basically if I don't change my working situation I will be in the worst situation in my working life that I can imagine, and I can't let that happen to me - there is too much that I want my Children to do with their lives.

Tae Kwon-Do and related classes
I want to have successful TKD classes for multiple reasons. Firstly, because I know I can make extra money and good money at that. Secondly, because I know I am a good teacher and explain things well and get results which will mean that people will come to me, I have no doubt that my classes will be full. Thirdly, I know I will be good at it and I really want to do something good for the community and for individuals. I want to see a healthier & happier population and I can make a difference. I know TKD and related activities is sometimes a sore point but I find that it really allows me to stay active and helps me keep striving to achieve. I think everyone should have some sort of activity that they feel this way about whether it's sport, music, painting, cars, drama, etc, etc, etc

All the above is geared towards giving me time at home with my lovely family. I want to be the Dad that Edie and Ethan talk about all the time, I want them to look up to me and see me as an inspiration to do something different with their lives. I feel by trying to do something different with my working life that they might learn and take it a step forward and get excited about things and do something excellent with theirs. If you wanted to work more, say with the NHS or private, I would hope that my working plans above would give me the time to look after the children.

You and I have been best friends since the day we met and that must remain forever. I know that if we cleared our minds and worked together on making the above happen we would have much more time available and we would have a tidier house and we would be HAPPIER.

Come on Darling let's get excited about it all and make things happen.

I love you more and more everyday.
I'll post again tomorrow once she has read it and I'll post the outcome.

Having Fun

James.

www.buyXsocks.com

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